Monday, January 9, 2012

Busy little weekend

This weekend was pretty low key for the most part, just ran around LA doing a bunch of errands. One of the items on my list, was getting a passport photo for my state certification application. Right before I took the picture, I fixed my hair, touched up my make-up, and put on my best camera-friendly smile. The photographer promptly told me that I was not to smile, as the face-recognition software wouldn't be able to pick up my profile. Since when was this a rule?  And why would a smile screw up the software? Shouldn't that be a factor that the passport authorities would be able to adjust for in their software?  Oh well. At least I have item checked off my list!
On Saturday, I went to the Skirball Cultural Center for their "Half the Sky" exhibit, which is based on a book with a similar title that I read last year. In summary, the book is about human rights issues affecting women all over the world, such as sex slavery/trafficking, female circumcision, resources for education, domestic violence, and maternal health care. I was excited for the exhibit and overall was pleased with how they designed it. The ceiling had a neat art piece that looked like a collection of flying wings and the exhibit's layout of artwork, photographs, music and story boards seemed to flow nicely. The one thing that I didn't expect about visiting the exhibit, was how it would affect me. When I first walked into the exhibit, the first items I saw were an artistic tribute to women who had died in childbirth in various third-world countries. As I began to read their stories with each of the art pieces, with a documentary on lack of adequate maternal health care in Sudan playing in the background, I started to feel light-headed and my face flushed with heat. I recognized the signs that I was about to faint and sat down on a nearby bench immediately. After taking some slow deep breaths, it dawned on me how, now being 7-months pregnant, reading these kinds of stories would affect me differently now than compared to when I had initially read them a year ago. I shook my head at myself and felt silly for not thinking about that before I had driven out to the museum. I suppose it is just another example of how becoming a mother/parent will alter your life in unpredictable ways. After that, I decided to skip the rest of the maternal health section and focus on the other parts of the exhibit. The museum was closing by the time I had finished up and I walked through the museum gardens back to my car. As I drove home on the 405, the sun began to set, and I thought about all the things that I am lucky to have in my life. Although I occasionally complain about living in LA, it certainly beats what other women in several parts of the world have to live with on a daily basis. Never hurts to get a little perspective now and again.

1 comment:

  1. Aint that the truth! You're looking so good Leah! I'm so sorry that I won't be able to make it to your baby shower! I'll be thinking about you though and hopefully will get down to LA later this year and get to meet the little guy!

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